6. Understand and help patients apply strategies for coping with death

3. Increase comfort level with difficult conversations


Unit 7 Section 2 Exercise 4 Spirituality

Michael Stillwater is an artist/educator who, together with Emmy-award winning film composer Gary Malkin, melds music with the words of distinguished teachers to create inspiring messages for patients and practitioners.

Listen to the following excerpts from Graceful Passages: A Companion
for Living and Dying, created by Stillwater and Malkin.  The package includes a book with two CDs-  one with messages and music, and one with instrumental music alone.

You can visit Stillwater's website for a menu of his offerings and
works: http://www.innerharmony.com .

Excerpts from Thich Nhat Hanh’s “End of Suffering” (Buddhist)

Zalman Schachter-Shalomi’s “In your Blessed Hands” (Jewish)

Arun and Sunanda Ghandi’s “We Are Not Alone” (Hindu)

Linda Tillery’s “Swing Low” (Christian/African-American)

What is your reaction to the juxtaposition of Buddhist, Jewish, Hindu and Christian songs about the experience of death, set to music?

  1. Who might benefit from listening to these musical interpretations, and how?
  2. Let us assume that, listening during a break or at home after a long day, a hospice worker—nurse, aide or physician—responds deeply to this music. What connection does this experience have with day-to-day patient care, symptom management, and decision-making? Does it have an ancillary or an integral role?
  3. Discuss a context in which this music could or should be shared with a patient.